Being Understood Starts with Understanding

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“I just don’t understand why they don’t listen to me!”  Have you ever had that thought? Do you have employees?  Do you network?  Do you go to meetings?  Do you feel as though nobody listens to you?

The fact is that people do not listen and understand you because you are not listening to them.  You talk, explain, analyze, preach, propose, and offer advice and instruction.  The reason that they do not listen and understand is because you have not listened and understood them.  You will understand them only when you listen to them. Understanding them leads to you being understood.

First, ask an open-ended question (Who, What, When, Where, and Why).  Then, be present.  Be engaged.  Quietly listen.  Then ask another question.  Feel where they are.  See how they see you.  Then ask another question.  Listen for a long time, without offering your wisdom or giving solutions.  Just listen and UNDERSTAND.  After truly understand them will you be truly understood yourself.

When you truly respect and listen, and understand another human being, it opens the possibility for a real conversation.  What they understand is that you care and that you truly understand and respect them.  They might even ask you a question, and seek to understand you.  Now wouldn’t that be an interesting response, that they want to listen to you?

If you are ready to be heard.  If you have something valuable to share.  If YOU want to be understood, you have you start with understanding!

by PJ Weiland, ActionCOACH
http://www.actioncoach.com/pjweiland

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How Referrals Can Work for YOUR Business!!

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In an effort to jump-start small businesses – and remind them of the power of a single referral – John Jantsch (author of Duct Tape Marketing) launched Make a Referral Week in March of 2009. The goal of the event was simple: To provide 1,000 referrals to 1,000 deserving small businesses across the country.

Referral based businesses can either take a passive role or an active role in generating referrals. Those that take a passive role, create satisfied customers and spend their marketing time and dollars trying to get their message in front of as many potential customers as possible, then they are relegated to waiting and hoping that the phone rings.

Those that take an active role, do things a little differently.

1. Give awesome service that creates ‘raving fans’ instead of just satisfied customers. The only reason people talk about a service or product is because it was extremely good or extremely bad – make yours exceptional.

2. Make sure you thank your customers and ask them to tell your friends about you. Think back to the last time you were personally thanked for your business. It doesn’t happen often, so when it does we remember it.

3. Let your customers know up front that you will be asking for referrals later on. Don’t hit them cold – let them know that you are a referral based business and give them the chance to think about whom they want to refer.

4. Making giving a few referrals a condition of doing business with you. If you really want a business that runs on referrals than make it a rule that for people to do business with you, they have to give you referrals.

5. Ask for a referral when people buy from you (or even when they don’t). During the sale customers’ emotions are running high and they are happiest to give them. When customers don’t buy they usually feel a little awkward, and may feel obliged to help you out in a situation like this because they have just said ‘no’ to making a purchase from you.

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YOUR CHALLENGE THIS WEEK:  Consider your business approach to referrals and make the commitment to take an active strategy. And remember givers gain.

If you would like further information or you have any questions about this blog, you can email me at pjweiland@actioncoach.com or call 847-739-3079.

For your complimentary business coaching session visit www.bestchicagobusinesscoach.com. To register for our complimentary workshop, 6 Steps to a Great Business, visit www.workingonthebusiness.com.  Let’s work together to help your business grow.

CHOOSE to show up 100%

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By Action Coach PJ Weiland

Have you ever felt like you are just going through the motions?  Ever wonder if you could have a satisfying professional life?  Trying to figure out how you’re going to get through an upcoming event?

You’re concerned about your business.  You’re apprehensive, fearful, and unhappy. You’re bored. Sound like YOU?

If you are human, you have probably felt like this at one time or another.  Perhaps you feel like this right now.  Do you ride it out or throw in the towel and quit?  Are you up to trying something different?

I want you to try this:  It’s not easy, but it’s simple.  You will have to CHOOSE to show up and participate 100%, no matter the task or the event.  You will learn how to get “from” a situation by full participation, not just get “through” it.  It’s about giving your all (not coasting by).  It’s about understanding that you are a verb (not a noun). It’s about being the professional you choose to be, no matter where you are or what you are doing.

Who creates your happiness?  YOU
Who creates your fulfillment?  YOU
Who creates your satisfaction?  YOU

You create these by CHOOSING to be happy, fulfilled, and satisfied.

Think about it.  You are going to a networking luncheon.  You are going to take a course. You are going to meet a client.  You are going to an important event.  Since you are going to do it anyway…then CHOOSE to show up 100%.  Show up full of gratitude and joy, and create a way to make it a great experience!

Choose who YOU want to be, and be that person.  It’s amazing how it will make you feel and what will happen.  Are you smiling because you are happy, or happy because you are smiling?  Are you full of gratitude because you have so much of it, or are you rich with blessings because you are thankful?  Are you kind because you feel loved, or do you feel loved when you CHOOSE to be kind?

CHOOSE to BE what you want to see, and watch it come to pass!  You are headed for an amazing experience!

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If you are in the Chicago area, consider taking one of PJ’s workshops, 6 Steps to a Great Business, coming up on 2/19 and 3/4.

 

2016 Online Small Business Events

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Health Benefits Done Right: Health Insurance and the Role of Payroll
January 26, 2016
Finding the right health care for your small business doesn’t have to be hard or costly. This webinar contains the basics you’ll need to find the right plan for you and your employees, and how it relates to your payroll solution.

How to Grow Your Business Online
January 26, 2016
Google is now an important part of the marketing mix for many companies, capable of driving tremendous business. This session is designed to help you understand the factors Google uses to determine the rankings of sites in their organic results, and within their paid results (PPC).

What’s Ahead for Affiliate Marketing?
January 27, 2016
Learn about new products and services on the road map for this year and how you can benefit from them.

Social Media, Marketing, and Websites
January 27, 2016
Whether you have a website, a LinkedIn page, or use Facebook, Twitter, Youtube, or Instagram, you are exposing your practice/business to a potential Breach. The avenues of electronic communications are growing and we must grow with it in order to maintain HIPAA compliance and keep the integrity and privacy of patients and their protected health information. In this lesson, policies and procedures will be discussed that will help to ensure a compliant understanding of the usage of social media, marketing efforts, and website development.

Credit Card Surcharging:  What are the stipulations for compliance?
January 27, 2016
The worst thing end-user organizations can do is to have an uninformed reaction to surcharging. It’s important to first look at the big picture as end-users should also educate suppliers about the economics of card acceptance, pointing out the savings possible and other benefits.

7 Powerful Excel Features Every Government User Needs to Know
January 27, 2016
Many government employees use Microsoft Excel® only occasionally for updating figures on a monthly report, creating a budget, or preparing mailing lists. Being comfortable using Excel is a great skill to have, but becoming a more knowledgeable user is even better.When you master some power-user tricks, you’ll be more productive and valuable at work.While it is important to play around with Excel and try different functions, having an expert walk you through the process is so much better.During this webcast, you’ll get a step-by-step demonstration of some key Excel features that can truly advance your skills and boost your productivity.

GrowthWheel Tool:  Engaging Customers in Conversation
January 28, 2016
How do you best engage customers/clients to retain and continue to serve them?  Explore activities to start conversations, how to think through what vehicles you’ll use, and key messages you want to convey.

How to Kill It In Social Media
January 28, 2016
You will learn to develop and execute a social media plan for your small business.  You will also learn how to drive traffic and extend brand awareness by leveraging social media.

Free Publicity – Get Buzz and Attention in the Media
January 28, 2016
Presenter Ramon Ray has been featured in the NY Times, Wall Street Journey, Inc Magazine and beyond. In this webinar, he’ll share his secret sauce for getting the media talking about YOU and your product or service.vBusinesses who get media attention build credibility and quickly extend their brand reach faster than simple word of mouth marketing or other marketing. Attendees will leave this insightful, energized and practical presentation with specific tools and best practices to get the attention of local and national media.

How to Build Your First Mobile App
January 28, 2016
Learn from experts about how to approach building a mobile application and explore various do-it-yourself or outsourcing options.

How to Use Offline and Online Networking to Grow your Business
February 2, 2016
Learn how to develop a networking strategy, where the best places to network are, how to perfect your introductions, and more!

Financials for Non-Financial Small Business Owners
February 9, 2016
Understanding your company’s financial statements is fundamental for business success, but often business owners find themselves baffled by income statements, balance sheets, and cash flow forecasts.

Top 5 Ways SCORE Can Help You Launch & Grow Your Business
February 9, 2016
Find out what SCORE can do for you and your business!

Ask the CPA:  Tax Advice for Small Businesses
February 18, 2016
Join us for this timely SCORE LIVE Webinar when we’ll be answering your questions regarding tax preparations for small businesses!

Check back often for updated events!
And don’t forget to connect through LinkedInTwitter, and Google+.

ONGOING EVENTS or PAST WEBINARS

U.S Small Business Administration:  Click HERE for Webinars

IRS:  Click HERE for Webinars

American Management Association:  Click HERE for Webinars

RESOURCES for Small Business

SBA Loans and Grants:  Click HERE 

Women-Owned Business Grants:  Click HERE 

Federal Grants for Small Business:  Click HERE 

Legal Concerns for Small Business:  Click HERE 

Legal Assistance for Small Business:  Click HERE 

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Benefits of Hiring a Virtual Assistant

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10 Benefits of Hiring a Virtual Assistant:

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  • To get new customers to know, like, and trust your business
  • To give you more time to focus on business relationships
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